I'm actually okay with obnoxious people because at first interaction, because I know I will never ever include them in any aspect of my life. It's a clear-cut feeling, knowing that this person is somebody you can never accept, and will never want be in your entire life. It's like a lesson from the heavens, showing you some examples of how you should never become.
Then you have the extreme opposite - the people who you like at first glance. They don't have to do anything but you just like their existence. Could be their face, their hair, or maybe the way they talk or behave towards certain situations. Or perhaps, it's the way you both think. You just like them. And if the feeling is mutual, a friendship will blossom.
I generally can handle these two groups of people. But the scariest group would be those you don't really fancy or bother initially, but they fucking grow on you over a period of time.
These people, perhaps due to many reasons, didn't leave a good impression at first sight. Or maybe they were the kind that you don't really bother and fuss over because they're either not exactly THAT good looking, or friendly, or horrible to begin with. These people are the lukewarmers. And the scary part is that they grow on you. Unknowingly, they creep up these tendrils-filled wall when you're very comfortable being alone. THEY BECOME A TENDRIL. THEY GROW ON YOU.
I currently do not have any solution to deal with this last category of people but recently, I feel like my life has been infiltrated by a few of them.
And I'm damn scared to invite them for a cuppa, or to even chase them away because they scare me, but I kind of still want them here.
Jokes on meeeeee.
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